To quote my grandmother (she told me this is what she told my mother):
"You made one mistake. Now don't make another one."
I realize that abortion is now legal. Before it was legal, it was available, and it was dangerous to the mother. It has always been dangerous to the child. Legalized abortion has not changed that fact. Abortion is dangerous to the child. Her life is snatched before a breath is drawn. Her voice will never be heard. She cannot do any evil. She cannot do any good.
My new president, for whom I voted, and in whose vision I see hope, has made two bold acts during his first days in office, to reverse the decisions of our former president.
He has ordered the closing of Guantanamo within a year, and ordered the trials be stopped for 90 days so he can review the situation.
I wish he would have attached a 90 day window to his decision to lift the ban on embryonic stem cell research. Polarizing voices of the pro-life movement have never, to my knowledge, bothered to table their passion long enough to persuade as though they expected the so-called pro-abortion camp to be open to reason.
I believe, and am convinced, that the "liberal" people I know personally are open to reason. Have some respect, my conservative friends, and talk without acting all injured self-righteous. Get your pious pride out of the way of actually making a difference. There is fresh air blowing. Add your breath to it. If you'd get the chip off your shoulder, you might be surprised to discover real human beings who are willing to listen to your reasons for believing embryonic stem cell research is a bad choice.
The same ethics that demand legal advocacy for our presumed enemies, demand a voice for the unborn.
I'd just like to quote from David McCullough's 2001 biography of John Adams, and then open the floor for discussion.
" 'Do you expect he should behave like a stoic philosopher, lost in apathy?' Adams asked. Self-defense was the primary canon of the law of nature. Better that many guilty persons escape unpunished than one innocent person should be punished. 'The reason is, because it's of more importance to community, that innocence should be protected, than it is, that guilt should be punished.'
" 'Facts are stubborn things,' he told the jury, 'and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictums of our passions, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence.'"
Rani....I'm kind of speechless here. I am so proud that you are my friend and were able to say what you have said above. I think it's wonderful. I can tell though that you were one of the lucky ones.
ReplyDeleteI don't really know what my opinions are on the subject as I have actually had one abortion during my life, then when my younger son came along I felt it was meant to be. Sometimes since then I admit to having wondered as he often acted as though he would rather not be with us.
It is therefore a very difficult subject for me.
Kudos to you for this blog Rani.
Wow, thanks for your candor Ronnie! I am so grateful and honored to have you as a friend as well.
ReplyDeletehi your a very special person and i'm really glad your my friend
ReplyDeletei feel the same way as you do a child is for life Hugs
ReplyDeleteThe idea of "illegitimacy" seems almost quaint these days. Single parents, blended families, in vitro fertilization....it's a brave new world, and as fascinated as I am by scientific advances, there are times when I think we should step back and ask, "Is it a good thing to do this simply because we can?"
ReplyDeleteI know stem cell research offers many possibilities, from curing long, debilitating, fatal illnesses to cloning new hearts or other organs which would have virtually no risk of rejection. Those are good things. But we must face the fact that if we prolong life, if we increase human life span, we must find a viable, effective way to control the population. And - IMO, anyway - abortion should only be used as a last resort.
We must seek moderation and balance. We must sit down and talk about issues in detail, rather than shouting at each other across a crowded room. Which, I believe, is basically what you are saying.
Yes, that is exactly what I am saying. Thanks, Kira!
ReplyDeleteNot every child is wanted by its parents my mother gave me to my grandmother as she felt unable to take care of me for what ever reason but I thank God she did I never asked to be born but glad she never took my life before I had any choice in it . I lost three babies so I am not a good choice about abortion as I wanted them an lost them an some one else take away some thing I was not allowed .An I am a firm believer it is killing as if there was no life to start would be no life later.
ReplyDeleteThere are times.. it should be an option.. but, there are times.. when it shouldn't. Late-term abortion usually makes most folks VERY uncomfortable.. cause.. there is NO denying.. if the baby could survive outside of the womb.. they should not be allowed to puncture the skull.. go and do a bit of research on "late term abortion".. and THEN.. tell us what you honestly think.
ReplyDeleteAll options open and let them be available for everyone.
ReplyDeleteI don't like how mums in general try to cope with work and motherhood.
I dislike butch men who feel their domestic matter are not their domain.
Artificial body parts is progress, wanting mine is cannibalism.
Believe in what is meant to be happens and not to interfere with nature or fate unless you can run.
Artificial this today, fate runs something over you tomorrow.
I don't like abortion unless its rape.
Mums with children are the best people ever, regardless of their position
Top of the pops from that lot?
Mums in any form
Well, I don't like or agree with abortion, but I fear the alternative could be far worse.
ReplyDeleteFurther, just because you and I disagree with abortion for our own reasons, doesn't mean others do. Some people feel just as strongly that it's wrong to eat meat because "all life" is precious. Some agree and some don't, but that's not going to stop grocery stores from selling it.
Education is the key.
The alternatives would be:
ReplyDelete- Back alley butchers and lseveraly scarred and lost lives of scared, young girls.
- an exponential increase of "trash can babies."
- a significant increase in orphans suffering from the severe and debilitating consequences of drugs and HIV/AIDS because of their mothers' lifestyles while pregnant.
Again, education is key.
wow. just stumbled upon this post and I want to say well done to you, Rani, for speaking out for those who are unable to speak or even cry out.
ReplyDeletesure, abortions happened even when they were illegal, and there were women who paid a high price for that. but the ones who pay the highest price are the babies, who are killed horribly and painfully inside their mother's womb - a place that is supposed to be the safest.
I did it myself, I believed all the spiel about how "it's only a bunch of cells" and that it doesn't make sense to bring a baby into the world if you can't give it a decent start. I'm alive to regret my actions, my baby is not. I could have given birth and offered the baby for adoption - there are so many couples who can't have babies and would give anything for that. We have couples going through endless ivf treatments, sometimes years of stress, and at the same time in the same hospitals we have doctors killing "unwanted" babies! It's just plain wrong.
Thank you for adding your very candid comments to mine, Meirav. God bless you.
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