Multi-tasking Mom

Putting away the holiday decorations, working on the laundry, and playing with the computer.

Speaking of computers, I've had to play "I.T. Gal" for family members twice today.  My husband added a new scanner/printer/copier and lost his internet connection, and my son called with media player problems.  (Just used "System Restore" for both problems.)

System Restore -- ah, I could wax eloquent on that concept.

What I Love About 2006

Current mood: cheerful

cell phones, laptops, mp3 players, learning to download music, getting the news thru RSS feeds, reading weblogs, helping my son's high school drama club, beautiful bouquets from my husband's garden, connecting with cousins through genealogy sites, lots of overnights here for my grandkids this year, family picnics this summer, we haven't had much snow this winter, and my dad who's been retired for years just got a job and loves it

Note to self at nineteen

I wish I could go back in time and give that girl the advice she NEEDS:  Slow down! Allow yourself the blessed gift of time. Decisions are not as urgent as you think. Be good! Especially be good to your family.

Note to self at thirteen

I wish I could go back in time and tell that girl the answer to her question. She wished she had the courage to ask a woman from church who was the mother of three sons how to understand how boys think. Girl, you'll be the mother of sons yourself someday. They think just like real people. (Isn't that funny?)

BTW, further to self at sixteen from my previous post: The reason the boys who talk to you in class and who help you with Science and Math, and ask your help in English don't call you -- too shy. They agonize about wanting to call as much as you do about wanting to be called. You are not the only "late bloomer" on the planet, girl. But the upside of that is, life goes on. The nice boys will eventually get their courage up, and you'll meet and love your soul-mate someday. Wait for him.

Note to self at sixteen

I wish I could go back in time and tell that girl the answers to all the questions she didn't even know to ask! The first answer is: "Girl, it gets better." The second answer is: "You get to live ... you get to be yourself ... some people will like you just the way you are." The third answer is: "You'll figure it all out ... honestly! ... you really will!" The fourth answer is: "Just learn all you can learn ... think your quiet thoughts ... be good to your family ... and know that God loves you."

Entry for December 31, 2006

"Facts are stubborn things, and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictums of our passions, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence."

-- John Adams

Entry for December 30, 2006

"If you wish information and improvement from the knowledge of others, and yet at the same time express yourself as firmly fixed in your present opinions; modest, sensible men, who do not love disputation, will probably leave you undisturbed in the possession of your error."

-- Benjamin Franklin (1771)